Years ago, I watched one episode of Oprah. I forget what was that about, but I still remember the quotation:
When a death happened in a family, sometimes those who left behind will end in a separation/ divorce.
So when a child was dead, especially when it was on an accident, the parents who survived could end up blaming each other….. Instead of be there and intensively support each other and make sure that everybody who life will stay together.
Because a death is not the end of someone’s life (it’s the beginning of the ‘mortal life’… the life after death). But ironically, someone’s death could be the end of someone’s life.